Navigating Wedding Costs on Long Island: Insights for Your Dream Day

Planning a wedding on Long Island is a dream for many couples, offering stunning venues, picturesque landscapes, and unparalleled hospitality. However, as highlighted in a recent New York Post article, the cost of tying the knot in this coveted location can be significant. An average $58,245 is spent on Long Island nuptials. If you’re envisioning a North Fork wedding, the Jedediah Hawkins Inn is here to help you create an unforgettable celebration without breaking the bank.

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The Reality of Long Island Wedding Prices

The New York Post article shed light on the rising costs of weddings, with Long Island emerging as one of the priciest locations in the country. Factors such as venue demand, catering expenses, and seasonal trends all contribute to the hefty price tags. However, it’s important to remember that a higher cost doesn’t have to mean compromise—it’s about making thoughtful choices to align your vision with your budget.

Why Choose Jedediah Hawkins Inn?

At Jedediah Hawkins Inn, we understand the importance of balancing elegance and affordability. Nestled in the heart of Long Island’s wine country, our venue offers:

• Historic Charm: Our 19th-century property provides a unique and romantic backdrop for your special day, with gardens, vintage-inspired interiors, and versatile event spaces. Additional florals are less important, when you are surrounded by gardens
• Customized Packages: We work with couples to tailor wedding packages that suit their needs, offering options for intimate gatherings and grand celebrations alike.
• Culinary Excellence: With a focus on locally-sourced ingredients, our culinary team crafts menus that delight guests and reflect the flavors of the North Fork.

Tips for More Budget-Friendly Wedding Planning

Here are some strategies to make the most of your budget while planning a Long Island wedding:

1. Choose Off-Peak Dates: Opting for a wedding in the shoulder season or on a Friday or Sunday or a weekday can significantly reduce costs.
2. Focus on Priorities: Decide which aspects of the wedding are most important to you, whether it’s the venue, food, or photography, and allocate your budget accordingly.
3. Local Vendors: Leverage the North Fork’s wealth of talented local vendors for decor, flowers, and entertainment to save on transportation fees.
4. Intimate Guest List: A smaller guest count allows for more personalized experiences and reduced per-person costs.
5. Choose an All-Inclusive Venue: Selecting a venue like Jedediah Hawkins Inn simplifies planning and saves money. With tables, chairs, flatware, plates, linens, and more included, you won’t need to worry about rentals.  Being able to have the ceremony and reception in one location saves expense and trouble for your guests. Hair and makeup done at the Inn from early morning to a late night after-party makes us an ideal one stop venue.

Plan Your Dream North Fork Wedding

At Jedediah Hawkins Inn, we’re committed to making your wedding day as stress-free and memorable as possible. With our idyllic setting, exceptional service, and flexible packages, we’re here to help you navigate the intricacies of Long Island wedding planning.

Contact us today to learn more about hosting your wedding at Jedediah Hawkins Inn and let us turn your dream day into a reality—without the overwhelming price tag.

Introduction: Nestled amidst the serene landscapes of the North Fork, Emily and Zack’s love story reached its pinnacle in a picturesque celebration at the Jedediah Hawkins Inn. Despite weather challenges, their wedding exuded rustic charm, with the barn serving as an intimate setting amidst farm views and the essence of wine country. Let’s immerse ourselves in the enchanting details of their special day, where every aspect reflected the couple’s unique style and passion for beauty.

The Enchanting Venue: Jedediah Hawkins Inn provided the perfect backdrop for Emily and Zack’s union. Opting to hold the ceremony in the barn due to weather conditions only added to the allure of the occasion. Surrounded by the warmth of the barn wood and beautiful lighting, guests witnessed the exchange of vows.

Fox Burrow Designs: Emily’s creativity shone through as she personally designed the invitations through her business, Fox Burrow Designs. Capturing rustic elegance, the invitations reflected the couple’s personality and the ambiance of their special day. Instagram posts shared live the journey of designing these invitations, offering glimpses into Emily’s artistic process and the meticulous attention to detail that defined every aspect of the wedding. Follow @foxburrowdesigns on Instagram.

Personalized Touches: Every detail of Emily and Zack’s wedding was thoughtfully curated, including the candle favors adorned with personalized his and hers clever labels. Additionally, Emily’s programs and menus provided guests with a glimpse into the evening’s festivities. The signage throughout, signature cocktail, seating chart, welcome and memorial signs added to the cohesive design and special details.

A Culinary Delight: The culinary experience at Jedediah Hawkins Inn surpassed expectations, with a menu inspired by the bountiful offerings of the surrounding wine country. From farm-fresh ingredients to expertly crafted dishes, each bite was a testament to the region’s rich culinary heritage. Guests savored every moment, indulging in a gastronomic journey that perfectly complemented the joyous atmosphere of the occasion.

Capturing Moments: As the evening unfolded, cherished moments were immortalized by talented photographer Thalia Abreu @thaliacamerist, ensuring that memories of Emily and Zack’s wedding would be treasured for years to come. From heartfelt exchanges to joyous celebrations on the dance floor, each photograph encapsulated the love and happiness that permeated the air, serving as a timeless reminder of a day filled with love and laughter.

Conclusion: Emily and Zack’s wedding at Jedediah Hawkins Inn was a testament to love, creativity, and the beauty of rustic charm. Despite the weather’s best efforts, the day unfolded seamlessly, leaving a lasting impression on all who attended. From the enchanting barn ceremony to the personalized details woven throughout the celebration, every element spoke volumes about the couple’s unique bond and their shared vision for a day filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

Wedding florals and photo by Blooms by Design at Jedediah Hawkins Inn

Rustic Romance: North Fork Barn Wedding

If you’re dreaming of a rustic and romantic wedding, look no further than a North Fork barn wedding. Within two hours drive from New York City, this charming and picturesque location on Long Island’s East End offers the perfect setting for an outdoor farm wedding. With its scenic views, quaint towns, and local charm, the North Fork is the ideal backdrop for your special day. Here are some tips and ideas for planning your perfect North Fork barn wedding.

The Venue

The first step in planning your North Fork barn wedding is finding the perfect venue. There are several barns and farms in the area that offer wedding packages, including the popular Martha Clara Vineyards, Hallockville Museum Farm and the barn at Jedediah Hawkins Inn. When choosing a venue, consider the size of your guest list, the amenities offered, and the overall aesthetic of the space. Many barns offer both indoor and outdoor options, so you can have the best of both worlds.

The Decor

One of the best things about a North Fork barn wedding is the natural beauty of the surroundings. Take advantage of this by incorporating elements of the outdoors into your decor. Use wildflowers and greenery for centerpieces and bouquets, and add touches of burlap and lace for a rustic feel. You can also use wooden signs and crates for a charming touch. Don’t be afraid to get creative and add personal touches that reflect you and your partner’s personalities.

The Food

The North Fork is known for its farm-to-table cuisine, so take advantage of this by incorporating local ingredients into your wedding menu. Jedediah Hawkins Inn offers on-site catering. At other venues, you can hire a local caterer to create a custom menu for your special day. Consider serving dishes that highlight the flavors of the region, such as fresh seafood and locally grown produce. You can also offer a signature cocktail featuring local wines, spirits and garnishes,

Wine Country and Visits to Wineries

The North Fork is also known for its vineyards and wineries, making it a great destination for wine enthusiasts. Consider incorporating visits to local wineries into your wedding weekend festivities. You can organize wine tastings or tours for your guests to enjoy the region’s finest wines. Some popular wineries in the area include Martha Clara Vineyards, Bedell Cellars, and Macari Vineyards. This addition will not only add a touch of sophistication to your wedding celebrations but also give your guests a taste of the renowned wine country of the North Fork. Local wines can also be served at your wedding.

Entertainment

A North Fork barn wedding offers the perfect opportunity for a unique outdoor ceremony. You can also set up lawn games like cornhole, horseshoes or bocce for a fun and relaxed atmosphere. And don’t forget about the photo opportunities! The scenic views and rustic charm of the North Fork make for the perfect backdrop for your wedding photos. Consider hiring a local DJ or band to keep your guests dancing at the reception in the barn. Incorporate your traditions, such as Line Dancing, Greek dancing or Bollywood moves. A firepit for late night s’mores offers a tasty send off.

The Accommodations

If you have out-of-town guests attending your wedding, consider booking a block of rooms at a local bed and breakfast or inn. This will not only provide a convenient place for your guests to stay, but it will also give them a taste of the local charm and hospitality of the North Fork. You can also provide a list of recommended activities and attractions for your guests to enjoy during their stay. For those couples getting married at Jedediah Hawkins Inn, there are six luxurious guest rooms and a beautiful honeymoon suite for the couple.

Conclusion

A North Fork barn wedding offers the perfect blend of natural beauty, rustic charm, and local flavor. With the right venue, decor, food, entertainment, and accommodations, you can create a truly unforgettable wedding experience for you and your guests. So why wait? Start planning your dream North Fork barn wedding today!

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To book a wedding at the barn at Jedediah Hawkins Inn, email us to set up a tour for you.

A Rustic Celebration: Martyna and Jesse’s North Fork Wedding at Jedediah Hawkins

Martyna and Jesse’s wedding at Jedediah Hawkins Inn was an absolute dream, captured beautifully by photographer Stephen Mayo in his blog post, “Eternal Love in a Timeless Venue.” Set in the unique venue of the North Fork, this rustic yet elegant wedding was a sight to behold.

The reception held in the charming barn was a highlight of the evening. The ambiance was filled with the melodies of Polish music courtesy of their band, setting the perfect tone for the celebration. Martyna’s vibrant energy stole the show as she twirled and spun in the center, radiating pure happiness.

Truly a North Fork wedding to remember, blending the rustic charm of the venue with the warmth of Martyna and Jesse’s love. To see more of the magical moments from their special day, be sure to check out Stephen Mayo’s stunning photos through the link provided.  https://www.stephenmayophotography.com/blog-index/2023/9/13/eternal-love-in-a-timeless-venue-inside-martyna-and-jesses-idyllic-wedding-at-the-jedediah-hawkins-inn-long-island-wedding-photographer

We’re thrilled to share some wonderful news with all our followers Jedediah Hawkins Inn had the incredible honor of being featured in Wedding Wire’s Real Wedding segment, spotlighting the enchanting union of Elsa and Winston on the picturesque North Fork. From the moment Elsa glided down the aisle to the heartfelt exchange of vows, and finally, the jubilant celebration, every moment was filled with love and joy.

The setting for this momentous occasion was none other than our own Jedediah Hawkins Inn, where rustic charm meets modern elegance. The ceremony and cocktail hour took place amidst the natural beauty of the outdoors, with the lush greenery and gentle breeze providing the perfect backdrop for this special day. As the sun began to set, guests were ushered into our exquisite Solarium for an intimate dinner reception, where laughter and conversation filled the air.

But what truly made this celebration unforgettable were the radiant smiles of Elsa and Winston, the epitome of love and happiness. Their love story is one for the ages, and we were honored to play a part in bringing their dreams to life.

For those eager to relive the magic of Elsa and Winston’s wedding day, we invite you to browse through the stunning collection of photographs captured by the talented Lore. Each image is a testament to the beauty of their love and the timeless elegance of Jedediah Hawkins Inn.

To view the gallery and immerse yourself in the splendor of this unforgettable day, simply follow the link below:

View the Photo Gallery

We extend our heartfelt gratitude to Wedding Wire for the opportunity to share this extraordinary event with the world, and to Elsa and Winston for entrusting us with their special day. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and cherished memories!

Romantic Barn Decor: To Tablecloth or Not To Tablecloth?

There is an ongoing debate on how to dress our farm tables in our rustic barn setting. Most couples choose to dress our beautiful, white painted tables only with flowers, garlands, or runners. Simple is always beautiful. 

Some couples use our tables as a blank slate for unique and vibrant tablecloths. This June wedding, chose a whimsical, leaf-patterned fabric, which coordinated beautifully with the pastel-colored flower arrangements and garlands. The foliage climbed the beams and crowned the chandeliers. This spring North Fork wedding was both magical and romantic. They incorporated custom matching floral menus and table number cards from Arnipaperie to complete this stunning look, created by thepartynewyork.com and trueelizabethflowers.com   

Our barn with its high ceiling  and exposed wooden beams  provides ample opportunities to utilize vertical space in the decor. The string lights running across the rafters, fairy lights on the walls as well as the chandeliers, which are dimmed as the sun sets, create a warm and inviting glow. Lanterns, candles, and illuminated mason jars can also add a romantic touch to your decor.  Wood welcome signs, available on Etsy, provide  a personal and rustic appeal.

Barn weddings offer a unique opportunity to embrace the natural, rustic charm of the venue.

To book the barn at Jedediah Hawkins Inn, write us at events@jedediahhawkinsinn.com. Click on our brochure below. We are happy to schedule a tour.

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Meet Reverend Dan Callahan at Jedediah Hawkins Inn. Reverend Dan, a warm and professional officiant, is the newest addition to our vendor list. At the historic Jedediah Hawkins Inn, Reverend Dan collaborates with couples to design ceremonies that align with their preferences, whether traditional, non-traditional, religious, non-religious, or interfaith. His warm and professional demeanor ensures that each ceremony is a true reflection of the couple’s relationship. He’s pictured here with James and Melissa at their beautiful wedding at Jedediah Hawkins this past Fall.

Reverend Dan Callahan is a seasoned wedding officiant based on Long Island, New York, with over a decade of experience in crafting personalized ceremonies that reflect each couple’s unique love story. His journey into officiating began when his son asked him to lead his wedding ceremony, a role he embraced with honor and enthusiasm. This initial experience led to numerous requests from family and friends, solidifying his passion for creating meaningful wedding experiences.

Reverend Dan’s versatility is evident in the diverse settings where he has officiated weddings, from formal banquet halls to intimate home gatherings and picturesque outdoor locations like the Setauket Nature Preserve. He is adept at incorporating special elements into ceremonies, such as unity candles or sand ceremonies, to enhance the significance of the occasion.

Couples consistently praise Reverend Dan for his personalized approach and attention to detail. Testimonials highlight his ability to create relaxed and heartfelt ceremonies, with one couple noting, “Reverend Dan helped us create a wedding ceremony exactly the way we wanted. We highly recommend him to make your wedding right for you.” At Jedediah Hawkins Inn, we appreciate his handwritten thank you notes. It’s a pleasure to recommend him.

For those interested in learning more about Reverend Dan Callahan or inquiring about his services, additional information is available on his official website. Follow him on Instagram at @revdancallahan.

Jedediah Hawkins Inn is 2017 Borrowed and Blue’s golden award winner for weddings on the North Fork

Jedediah Hawkins inn is thrilled to be a Borrowed & Blue 2017 Gold Medal winner. Thanks to all the vendors on Borrowed & Blue who voted for us!